Ground Rules for Respectful Dialogue

To be agreed upon at opening of dialogue.

These are the same Ground Rules for dialogue as used at the Congressional Bi-Partisan Retreats.

Objective:  "To create a safe environment for open conversation"

RESPECT

"To show consideration for; avoid violation of; treat with deference" 

Demonstrate valuing of people and process as much as outcome

No personal attacks

FAIRNESS

Equal time for speakers

Speak briefly; time is limited

LISTENING

When others speak, listen -- don't prepare your remarks

Listen with intent to understand

OPENNESS

To other points of view

To outcome

To each person regardless of seniority

PRIVACY

Treat sessions as confidential

Outside the retreat do not attribute comments to others

Speak from your own experience